My First Pre-Senior Privilege
Posted by Belle on 27 Sep 2008 at 12:08 pm | Tagged as: reflections
I am 40 something years old, petite, and fit into my children’s wardrobe.
Part of my daughter’s therapy is to keep her busy to get her mind occupied on something, like watching movie, taking walks, scrap booking, folding origami, etc. Last night, we agreed that we see a movie on a big screen in a nearby theater. We live only 5 minutes away from the nearest and only theater in town.
First, I took her to the nursery to buy plants for her apartment. She said she could use some plants for her apartment as it is too bare and needing some touch-ups. Then we stopped by at a friend’s salon to deliver fresh organic veggies from the garden. We gifted her a combination of pechay, chard, beet top, sweet basil, tomatoes, and eggplant.
Then, on the way home, we stopped by at the park to do our daily walk. We normally sit on the park for a minute or two to reflect/enjoy the beautiful scenery. I said we might have to skip on the sitting part as we were running late . You know, as a mother, I have other functions…too many functions actually, that often times, i run short of time to fulfill on some. We only circled the park once- equivalent to a mile.
Came home, fixed dinner right away while L prepared her favorite enchilada. I don’t know why she doesn’t care for my cooking which my husband and my other daughter are fond of. The only food that she likes from my cooking is eggroll. What can you do? She is 19 years old, and has her own food preference. She loves Mexican food.
She got herself a soft-round tortilla, grated some cheese and spread it on the tortilla, added slices of tomatoes, add a dash of pepper, drizzle some Tabasco, and microwave it for a minute. It was a actually delicious as I had a taste of it. But, is it a well-balanced diet? Let’s see. There are protein, carbohydrates, & veggie–good enough, I thought, plus the fact that it is delicious. What do you think?
I finished cooking before 7 PM, movie was at 7:30 PM. My husband and I ate the delicious stew I cooked with carrots, potatoes, celery, pepper, and fresh tomatoes from the garden, simmer to perfection. The gravy was devilishly good and creamy! It hit the spot!
We left the house at exactly 7:15 PM. I let L buy the ticket. It cost $8 per person. It was dark outside and the only source of light was from the ticket counter. I heard L ask if there was a discount for a student. The guy said No. From a distance, I asked if they gave discount to the senior. The boy just mumbled and handed us a dollar change. L was surprised to get a dollar back when she was actually rummaging through her pocket looking for a dollar more.
Hmmm, I get a dollar back, cool…L muttered.
Lexi, what happpened? Did he give me a senior discount???, I asked.
Apparently so, she laughed.
That is an outrage! I retorted.
Ahh, let it go, we have something to buy popcorn and drinks, L responded.
Suddenly, we were inside the theater enjoying popcorn, but at the same time I was feeling guilty for what had just transpired. It kept haunting me up until now. My husband was laughing because he thought it was an insult. I didn’t care about that. It wasn’t right, per se. I have to go back there and return the $2 that I was never entitled to.
What would you do?

I wouldn’t worry about it. It was just one incident and probably just a misunderstanding.
About whether the tortilla is healthy, perhaps add some refried beans, lettuce and maybe jalapeno peppers and olives to make it even better.
Hi Ate Belle,
What a scenery you have! I love rocks. Is there a close-up of the subject.
With senior discount, it must have been pretty dark to see you clearly. Just let it go because the more you think about it the more it’ll bother you. If you will feel better returning the money, then do so.
The soft tortilla sold in main stream stores are made with lard.
When I was not yet a senior (but nearing it), it used to bother me when waiters asked me if I had a senior card. What? Me? Senior? It made me so pikon I didn’t want to give them a tip. hahaha
But you know what? Some young people (not all) look at any one over 35 or 40 as ‘old’ — they cannot anymore distinguish between who’s really senior or not.
For me, from your pics, you look like the Ate Belle of Steff and Lexi.
Reminds me of my Auntie, everytime she take a bus, she’d ask for a Senior Citizen discount, it’s like age makes a difference on how much we should or we shouldn’t pay – oh well, don’t worry about it, maybe it was some misunderstanding lang.
Belle, hindi ka kaya 40-ish looking anoh? What is an enchilada btw?
i agree with annamanila,
belle you look very young,
definitely not senior.
Hahaha, let it go, I guess.
You take veggies from your garden, wow, I’m jealous.
Have a good day Belle!
Bella – First time I was asked if I wanted the senior discount I was about 45 or 46. The salesgirl was about 16. I put it down to the touch of grey in my hair. Then, when I was 59, some young boys who nearly hit me with their bikes said “you scared the old woman!” What a wakeup call!
just let it go, if not for a discount there wouldn’t be an extra dollar for popcorn and drinks
i am yet to blog about this, but sometime i can also get a discount from bus fares, not as senior but as a student (which i am not) hehehe.
That’s funny. You know what? I’m like you. It would also make me feel guilty. But hey, don’t worry about it. It’s only $2 and you got a taste of the perks of being a senior.
hehe don’t worry mommy, he probably knew that you guys just wanted a discount and gave it you anyway. you definitely don’t look like a senior!
oh belle, i wish i will have a figure like yours when i turn 40.
btw belle,
what am i missing?
why does lexi need therapy?
what is she recovering from?
hope all is well.
Hi Belle. I would die to have a figure like you. I think you look fabulous at 40-ish.
you wont believe it..here in manila even if the driver sees the obvious still he wont give you a senior discount fare (particularly jeepneys)…you have to shout from the top of your lungs…”SENIOR AKO” to benefit from the privilege…hehehe kaya consider yourself lucky tita belle..dont worry about it you dont look your age..the first time i saw your picture i thought you were 20 not 40+